Where I have family

I know that some states are better for surrogacy than others. California is one of those states. I do have family in various city's around Cali., mostly in the north. I also have family in Gold Beach and Portland, Oregon and Austin, Texas.

Charting

So I thought it might be a good idea to start charting my cycle so that I would have a good idea as to me myself and I. I have noted when I start, when I end, when I feel crampy mid way and all those good little details. I am more regular than I thought.

Living in

I had this though the other day. I used to be a live in nanny. If need be I would be willing to stay with the IP's during the end of pregnancy or the whole pregnancy if they wanted me to. That way they could be involved in the pregnancy as much as they wanted. My son would have to join me but it is an option. I could transfer to another college for the time there. Anyways just throwing it out there.

Personal Blog

I thought maybe I would start a blog that follows my more personal life on a daily basis so that any potential IP's can get an inside look at who I am. Some days I may write multiple entries, especially at the beginning, other days there may be no entry. As with this blog, I may seem random but that is how I write. Anyway without further delay here is the link to my new blog.

Personal Blog

Enjoy! LOL

Reduction and Termination

This is a very sensitive subject and many people have varied reactions and feeling towards it. I will not terminate unless there are significant health risks involved for either me or the baby. Most mental delays and minor defects are not considered significant in my book. I have worked with many special needs children over the years and they have all had wonderful fun filled lives. Depending on what was found, I would need to talk with the doctors and do research before any decision was made. But I will not terminate for gender, down syndrome, cleft lip/palate. There are other reasons out there but this is a general list. If my health is in jeopardy, than I will follow the recommendations of the doctors. If the babies health is at risk, again, I will follow doctors recommendations. By health I mean life or death. If I match with a couple wishing to do a GS journey, I will not transfer more than two embryos at a time. I feel that I could do well carrying twins, but the greater health risks involved with larger multiple births is to great for me. If one or both of those two embryos happen to split, then doctors, parents and I will sit down and talk about risks and possible reduction. If you have questions on this matter or would like an answer to when or what situations I would consider reduction/termination please feel free to email me.